Dating he stopped talking to me
To answer your question from the information you’ve given me… From what you told me, my read on what you’re trying to figure out is one of three scenarios: a) you want to know that he likes you because knowing someone likes you feels good, b) he is indifferent to you (in the romantic sense), but you and you’re seeing what you want to see, c) you don’t know whether or not he likes you, but you’d be open to starting something with him.
I’m going to go with the assumption that you like him, mainly because if you didn’t, you wouldn’t have asked.
Have you ever wondered where a third date with someone could have taken you if you had the opportunity to have one?
That's what I wonder about a guy I went out with two years ago. One of the last texts I ever got from Greg was a picture of him with his nephew.
After we matched, we had to wait almost two weeks to actually go on a date because of our schedules (he traveled for work as well). He actually called me while I was on a layover the second day of us talking, which set off a chain of talking on the phone most evenings, even though we hadn't met yet. There were little red flags though, like he seemed pretty hung up on his ex-girlfriend, he traveled for work a lot like I did, and it had already taken so long for us to meet up initially. How quickly I had jumped to the conclusion that he had just lost interest and ghosted me.
well, that usually leads to them actually liking you!Things seemed to be going well, and I was really stoked about it. He blew off our plans one night, then stopped answering my texts, stopped trying to get in touch, and basically just slipped out my life.He wasn’t into social media, so it wasn’t even like a could stalk his Facebook or Instagram.You’re just seeing what he’s doing online and that information is freely available to the world.Your motivations for checking up on this are worth looking at, though, because it gives me the feeling that either something inside you feels like you don’t quite trust this guy or that you don’t trust the relationship you’re in to have trust as a quality (and so you’re always checking and testing because you don’t have that trust to begin with…
I no longer had his number, but still knew his name to look him up on Facebook. At the time, I was still a flight attendant and was on the go constantly. Around the same time he didn't answer my last text.