Dating in your thirties
Before you write off everyone for all the wrong reasons, just remember that as you age, the stakes get higher. Few things in life follow a sequential order, and your love life isn't one of them. But your dates aren't managers, bartenders or flight attendants. (or Ms.) Right, and your hunt has extended into your 30s, consider yourself one of the lucky ones: You're finally wise enough to realize that being committed to one partner actually require a dose of settling; it's called compromise.
Go against the grain; it might end up feeling right.2.Dating in your 30s might not sound like as much fun as it did in your 20s, but it certainly doesn’t have to be a chore.Having survived the immature sagas of youth, you’re ready to hit your stride, relationship-wise.You can’t control every circumstance surrounding “meeting the one,” but you can control how you spend your time.Live life to the fullest and pursue the kind of life you want to be living. If you thought meeting people was tough in your 20s, you’re likely to find dating after 30 to be even trickier.
Be clear about what you’re looking for in a relationship from the beginning.